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  • Dawn posted an update in the group Group logo of CelebrateCelebrate 5 years, 6 months ago

    Still in disbelief that i lost my bella. She was my rock. She was by my side through everything. 12 years with my beautiful baby. Still cry daily. When does it get better?
    Heartbroken

    • Dawn, I posted the same question – when does the crying stop? It does, of course, but why is this so, so painful? I think because it’s so loving. Because they gave us so much love. Because we love them so much. Tears are a release, a cleansing function, and just don’t have to stop until they do. That’s it – they will stop when they do. And they will come back when they do, but over time, your smiles will precede your tears, and one day, you will have more smiles than tears…you will, and that doesn’t mean you stopped loving, it means the love you shared is bringing more joy than grief. Dawn, please you must stay in touch with us, cry with us if you want, and know we all are here for you. Toni