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Donna posted an update 3 years, 4 months ago
I miss him so much. I don’t know what to do.. he was everywhere, everything and now I’m alone…
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Donna, talk to us. Tell us about everything. I am so sorry and sad. Toni -
Ricky was my best friend. We just moved into a new house. A new start, and within 4 days he was gone. I don’t know what happened; the vet was stunned.
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I am so sorry for your loss. Those furbabies mean the world to us
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Donna, what a strange and sad story. When you say Ricky was “gone”, what do you mean? Did he die? Or did he leave? Either way, what a sad thing for you and I am very sorry. Please Donna, tell us more, and know we are here for you with arms open. Toni
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He died at the vet’s office. The vet was upset because he couldn’t figure out what was happening to Ricky. I lost my best friend in days. It’s hard to function at all.
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What a shock, Donna. It’s understandable that you are numb. I have a friend whose cat was sitting in his lap, he went to the garage and came right back in, and the cat was dead. The vet didn’t know what happened but suspected a heart failure. It happened in literally two minutes. As awful as it is for you, Donna, perhaps it was best for Ricky. There must have been an underlying condition. I am just so sorry for this. Please come to our kind and caring group meeting April 20th. We are here for you with sympathy and understanding, Donna. {HUGS} Toni
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Thanks. I know I did everything I could for him, but without more, painful procedures he would have suffered. Ive lost my friend, my support, my guardian all in 4 days. Everyone says get another dog to focus on, but I don’t want another dog, I just want my boy…🥺
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I’m with you about not putting them through extreme measures, especially when they are older. I’m facing that with Walter right now, and it helps to think of what is best for them, not us. And no, you can’t replace a pet with another. You CAN open your home and heart to a new love, but no one will “replace” Ricky. It may be some time before you are ready to do that. Or, what happened to me – a cat needed a home after my BG died and I took him in. I didn’t think I was ready, and I really didn’t want another pet yet, but it truly took me out of my blues and pain by having him. Now I have another cat who’s person died and he is old and sick. It’s easy to fall in love, brutal to say goodbye. Please don’t let anyone pressure you into doing anything. Come to our group meeting and you’ll hear similar stories from others. It can help a lot. Let us know how you are doing. It takes time, Donna, and we’re here for you. Toni
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