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Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 4 years, 11 months ago
Dianne, I think of you every day. I truly do, My old girl wasn’t eating today, and I thought of you and George because she went through times like that, too. But, my girl ate tonight :-)…. You and your stories about George, Oscar and the paths you are walking are very meaningful, in case you don’t already know that. That’s why we are here, and here for you, and everyone who loves, and has loved, and will love, our most cherished pets. Each day I anticipate the moment when I’ll find my beloved girl gone – it’s grueling. But, she wakes up and lets me love her, and I remind myself to cherish these times with her and not get ahead of things….. oops, sorry, didn’t mean to make it about ‘my pet’…Dianne, you are doing well, and you did well for her. Take comfort in that. As we’ve discussed – she had her design, as do we all, don’t you think?-
Hi Toni.I cherished George very much.It is hard to have senior pets and not knowing when there will be a time when they don’t wake up.Because George was fading,rapidly, I intended on having her put to sleep,but she went her way,on her terms.I do believe that kiss on my cheek,the Sunday before she had her accident,washer way of telling me goodbye,and she loved me.She has never kissed me on my face where I actually felt her tongue.I believe too,it was her way of thanking me for all of the years we had together,and I am forever honored to be George’s mom.-
This is so lovely, Dianne. Thank you for sharing your sincere, sweet sentiments.
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Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 4 years, 11 months ago
Oh my Dawg …… she is too cute, Martha. Love the one in the dress, too. I’ve gifted my friends ornaments with their pets on them (sadly, one of my dear friends’ cat has lymphoma and the ornament is very meaningful to them). If it would be healing and helpful, perhaps you would like one of Missy. You can find them here: https://www.faithfulfriends.com/shop/good-dog-personalized-house-photo-ornament-3-75-matte-2-sided/
Again, holidays stir deep emotions, especially the first one without them. I know, and will be here for you through them. Sending you a {HUG}-
Thank you Toni. Most of today has been better but tonight the tears are flowing again.-
Oh…I am so sorry to have you be so sad, and I understand, Martha. I swear, the holidays bring many different feelings and memories, and make it tougher in some ways, but hopefully also remind us to be grateful and happy for the lives and loves we have shared. This is an emotional period for all of us, and it is comforting to have us be here for one another. I hope you know I, and we, are sharing your grief and supporting you in your joys. Here’s another {HUG} and feel welcome to share as often as you need and want. We’ve got you…
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Thank you Toni. That means a lot.
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Hey Martha…. how did your Thanksgiving go? Okay ( I hope)?
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Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 4 years, 11 months ago
OH! would you share more pictures of Missy with us if you have some? -
Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 4 years, 11 months ago
Yep. That is relatable, and understandable, Martha. I think it’s because the love we share is truly at a deep, soulful level – cellular in a way, and the tears really do come from a place that is different. You stay with us, we’re here for, and with you. -
Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 4 years, 12 months ago
Martha, are you doing a bit better?-
Thank you Toni. Some days I think I am doing better but then, I am right back to crying.
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Yep. That is relatable, and understandable, Martha. I think it’s because the love we share is truly at a deep, soulful level – cellular in a way, and the tears really do come from a place that is different. You stay with us, we’re here for, and with you.
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OH! would you share more pictures of Missy with us if you have some?
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Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 4 years, 12 months ago
Hi Dianne. How are you today? Oscar? -
Toni Noel posted an update 4 years, 12 months ago
@raven27 Hello Jennie. Welcome to our caring community. Please tell us about your pets, and share photos if you like.
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Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 4 years, 12 months ago
Well, since my cat only has one tooth, I’m not familiar, but know many dogs who love Greenies. Good for tooth cleaning. Is it just the Greenies, or are other things not sitting well? -
Cody posted an update 4 years, 12 months ago
I’m not sure if my dog is just getting old, but Greenies (the dental treats) no longer sit well with his stomach. Chewy offered a refund which was nice. They are a good company to order from. Anyone else notice similar issues?
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Well, since my cat only has one tooth, I’m not familiar, but know many dogs who love Greenies. Good for tooth cleaning. Is it just the Greenies, or are other things not sitting well?
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Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 4 years, 12 months ago
Yes, I get that, Martha. Did you know the chemicals in tears are different when they are from joy vs. grief? Tears can release ‘negative’ chemicals to help heal. Even though my old girl is doing okay now, sometimes I am overcome by tears from deep within – it’s not something we control, nor should we. I think we should each write down a happy memory every day and one day, you’ll be smiling (possibly through tears, but happy for the time you had together). It takes time, Martha. And these darned holidays just don’t help, do they? -
Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 4 years, 12 months ago
You should still be very emotional – it’s only been a week. You are wrestling with so many thoughts and feelings, and the only way to go is straight through, which you are doing . That’s why we’re here for and with you – to let you share and get it all out. Hang in there, Dianne. -
Toni Noel posted an update 4 years, 12 months ago
@peanutandpixie Hello and welcome to our caring community, Margaret. “Peanut” – the name makes me smile. I am so sorry for your loss and hope you are okay – are you? What kind of pet was Peanut? May we hear some stories, and see some pictures? Please let us know how you are doing.
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Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 4 years, 12 months ago
Dianne, of course you are still reeling. It’s only been a very short time since George is gone. And in such a shocking way. I still think it was her destiny – that she was compelled to go out. Guilt comes naturally after an experience like yours, but I think you are the only one seeing it that way. She was ailing and is now at peace. I shared the story of my dear little kitten, Nicki, who never went out and one night threw herself out the door and got hit and killed. I know how guilty I felt, but truly think they have a design of their own. It’s good to have you share your feelings with us. Please let us know, as often as you like, how you are doing. Share some more pictures, and tell us about Oscar, Princess and Irish. How many cats do you have? It’s wonderful of you to share with them and I hope they are bringing you some comfort. HUGS…Toni-
I have two cats.The reason I believe Irish is staying inside is to comfort Oscar.He loved George too.
I am beginning to accept the fact that George wanted to go out,because she was ready to go on her terms.And maybe she did.I am trying my best to cope.-
You should still be very emotional – it’s only been a week. You are wrestling with so many thoughts and feelings, and the only way to go is straight through, which you are doing . That’s why we’re here for and with you – to let you share and get it all out. Hang in there, Dianne.
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Hi Dianne. How are you today? Oscar?
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Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 4 years, 12 months ago
Martha, It’s good to hear from you and have you share with us. It’s only been three months since you and Missy parted, and I think the holidays bring up memories that trigger strong emotions – good, and sad. You are always welcome to share more pictures of Missy with us, and if you think a lasting Memorial for her will be healing and helpful, you can create and maintain one in our Memorial tab: https://www.faithfulfriends.com/memorials/.
It took me a long time to welcome a new love into my heart, but I am so filled with her love now that I am glad the time finally came for us. Maybe one day you will be ready, maybe not. Right now you are moving through your grief and missing her among friends who understand and care. We want to hear from you, and about you. I hope this {HUG} carries my sympathy. Stay in touch with us, Martha.-
Thank you Toni. The tears just will not stop. Even when I am not consciously thinking about her they come. I wake up with my pillow wet with them.
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Yes, I get that, Martha. Did you know the chemicals in tears are different when they are from joy vs. grief? Tears can release ‘negative’ chemicals to help heal. Even though my old girl is doing okay now, sometimes I am overcome by tears from deep within – it’s not something we control, nor should we. I think we should each write down a happy memory every day and one day, you’ll be smiling (possibly through tears, but happy for the time you had together). It takes time, Martha. And these darned holidays just don’t help, do they?
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Martha, are you doing a bit better?
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Thank you Toni. Some days I think I am doing better but then, I am right back to crying.
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Yep. That is relatable, and understandable, Martha. I think it’s because the love we share is truly at a deep, soulful level – cellular in a way, and the tears really do come from a place that is different. You stay with us, we’re here for, and with you.
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OH! would you share more pictures of Missy with us if you have some?
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Cody posted a new activity comment 4 years, 12 months ago
We’re here with you, Martha. That is a great photo of Missy.-
/hank you Cody. She was my life. I am a senior disabled widow and it was just her and I.
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Cody posted a new activity comment 4 years, 12 months ago
So cute!-
Thank you.He is a sweet baby.
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Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 4 years, 12 months ago
Shawn, I am, we are, so happy to hear from you again. It’s been a few months and I am sure the holidays make you think of, and miss, Uno and Midnight. Do you have family and friends you can be with? Someone with pets you can love on? Shawn, do think you will welcome another pet into your home and heart? You know, you are always welcome to share more pictures and stories about Uno and Midnight with us – we love that, and maybe it will be good for you to revisit your times together with us. We understand how little things can trigger big feelings, how the seasons bring memories, and we are here for you. I’m sending you a {HUG}… -
Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 4 years, 12 months ago
I can see many, many, many…. pets (and maybe a few human little ones) scheming and preparing, like this too…….. I hope everyone shares holiday pics of their pets with us 🙂 -
Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 4 years, 12 months ago
Geri, when you love a lot, you lose a lot, too. Sometimes it seems to come in bunches. In a three year period I lost my father, husband, 19 year old cat, and my mother. It was like living in a cycle of grief. Now I am on edge about my 18 year old cat, but remind myself to enjoy our time together because no amount of my worrying will keep time from moving and life progressing. Just as we need to allow ourselves to enjoy, we need to grieve so we can heal, everyone in their own way and their own time. Thank you for sharing your stories, and sharing your sympathy and understanding with others. Toni -
Toni Noel posted an update 4 years, 12 months ago
THIS is why we created Faithful Friends – to share our stories and seek, and send, our support when facing or going through the most difficult times (and to celebrate our happy times). While we don’t like to part from our beloveds, we wouldn’t miss the loving, fun times we shared. And adopting an animal to provide a wonderful home is such a kind, generous thing to do, we keep doing it even after saying goodbye to others. I learn a lot from my pets – Live ’til you die. And if life becomes too challenging, we give them the grace of a peaceful passing. Love isn’t hard, love doesn’t go away when they do, it just hurts in a deep part of our soul. And one day, a memory will bring smiles and warmth to you, what our pets intended all along. Please continue to reach out to others here with YOUR stories, and support. Not just at this season, but always, be grateful for your time with your pets. We are grateful to have you be a part of our caring community. Tobi
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