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Dianne Kurtz posted an update 5 years ago
So last night after we buried George,my son went home and I walked around to the front of my house.I stopped in my tracks as I saw mama cat standing in the road.I called “George!” and then she was gone.
I honestly believe she kept wanting to get out because she knew it was her time to go” home”and because she loved me so much,she didn’t want me to see her passing away at home.
I am so glad she isn’t suffering anymore.
George and I have so many wonderful memories together.-
I am glad you feel her energy, and relief. How are your other pets doing with this?-
Oscar walks around looking for her.He is mourning her.Princess is lost without George.
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Yes, that is a loss they mourn with you. You all need one another more than ever right now. Extra helpings of love all around.
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Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 5 years ago
Of course, Dianne. I think you are right. She seemed ready. We never are. {HUGS} -
Dianne Kurtz posted a new activity comment 5 years ago
Toni,Mama George has never wanted outside.Until the last week.She got out once.Then we were all sitting in the house and nobody noticed she got out.But I think she knew she was ready to go “home”.My heart is broken.-
Of course, Dianne. I think you are right. She seemed ready. We never are. {HUGS}
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Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 5 years ago
Oh Dianne. She seemed to want to go outside lately, didn’t she? I wonder if she was so unwell, she wanted “out” literally. Yes, you feel guilty but I truly think that’s not true. I’ll share my story to tell you why I think you didn’t have a choice about it for her: My kitten Nicki never wanted to go outside. I had to pick her up and take her. One night my cat Chivo came in the sliding doors and Nicki jumped over her to get out – it was very strange for her to do. After awhile, when Nicki didn’t come in, I sent Chivo to look for her and Chivo came back and I knew, just knew, that Nicki had been hit and killed by a car. Guilt is a huge part of what we feel, but I really think Nicki was somehow compelled to go out. That may sound odd, but she NEVER went out on her own, and to jump over Chivo (who was her adopted mother) was way out of character. So, I’m not sure we have the control over their actions as much as we would like. Of course I am, and we all are, just devastated for you, and her. I know how you have worried each moment about her health challenges. I am so sad and sorry, and I hope you will allow yourself to grieve with kindness for yourself, and that soon you will find happiness with the memories you made together. Toni-
Toni,Mama George has never wanted outside.Until the last week.She got out once.Then we were all sitting in the house and nobody noticed she got out.But I think she knew she was ready to go “home”.My heart is broken.
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Of course, Dianne. I think you are right. She seemed ready. We never are. {HUGS}
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Dianne Kurtz posted an update 5 years ago
I am numb.I am at a loss of everything right now.I feel very sick.
I feel really GUILTY about not looking for mama cat.I actually thought she was inside with Oscar.I feel so lost without her.She would have been 15 years old next April.-
Oh Dianne. She seemed to want to go outside lately, didn’t she? I wonder if she was so unwell, she wanted “out” literally. Yes, you feel guilty but I truly think that’s not true. I’ll share my story to tell you why I think you didn’t have a choice about it for her: My kitten Nicki never wanted to go outside. I had to pick her up and take her. One night my cat Chivo came in the sliding doors and Nicki jumped over her to get out – it was very strange for her to do. After awhile, when Nicki didn’t come in, I sent Chivo to look for her and Chivo came back and I knew, just knew, that Nicki had been hit and killed by a car. Guilt is a huge part of what we feel, but I really think Nicki was somehow compelled to go out. That may sound odd, but she NEVER went out on her own, and to jump over Chivo (who was her adopted mother) was way out of character. So, I’m not sure we have the control over their actions as much as we would like. Of course I am, and we all are, just devastated for you, and her. I know how you have worried each moment about her health challenges. I am so sad and sorry, and I hope you will allow yourself to grieve with kindness for yourself, and that soon you will find happiness with the memories you made together. Toni
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Toni,Mama George has never wanted outside.Until the last week.She got out once.Then we were all sitting in the house and nobody noticed she got out.But I think she knew she was ready to go “home”.My heart is broken.
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Of course, Dianne. I think you are right. She seemed ready. We never are. {HUGS}
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Dianne Kurtz posted an update 5 years ago
I don’t know where to start…
My mama cat somehow got out of the house,and was struck and killed by a car.
A very nice lady brought me her collar,and showed me where she was. -
Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 5 years ago
Susan, not only is the sentiment true, the puppy in the picture is too adorable. I will suggest that people who have any furry, finned, feathered or scaled friend awaiting is a lucky human 🙂 Don’t you think? My cat always runs to greet me – I think she really wants a tummy rub and back scratch, but like to think she’s happy to see me……… -
Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 5 years ago
Tabetha, anniversaries and holidays, especially the first year, can be brutal with the memories they stir. I hope you will allow yourself to acknowledge and express your grief at this time more than ever. I am sure even little things trigger big emotions and there’s nothing for it but to feel it. I suspect Ladybug would, and does, send you her gratitude for a life of love you shared, and wants you to have smiles before tears when you think of her, and the 18 wheeling fun….We’re here for you not only at this time, but always, and I hope you will touch base often, even if, maybe especially if, you are hurting. I’ll be thinking of you, and hope this {HUG} helps you a little bit. Toni -
Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 5 years ago
You have every reason to be angry and still in tremendous pain, Cathy. I can’t speak to what happened at the vet, but the shock and loss would bring any of us to our knees. Would you like to speak with a trained, professional grief counselor? Glenn Swain (Rev. but non-denominational) has made his services available to our community at a discount. You can click here to schedule with him if you like: https://www.faithfulfriends.com/grief-counseling/
It seems to me you are dealing with two distinct, powerful challenges: Sadness and despair at Sheba’s passing and all the strong emotions any death of a beloved pet carries; and flat out anger at the result of the barium. Perhaps you could discuss the procedure she had with some other veterinarians – they may be able to explain how and why that happened. Please, let us know what you do, and what you find out, and how you are moving through this. I am so very sorry. Toni -
Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 5 years ago
Oh Kathy, I am so sorry and understand. It really isn’t that long since July, and I think holidays bring up memories and strong emotions. It sounds as if you took wonderful care of, and showered lots of love on Prince. He looks so happy in the photo. Do you know if he was a Russian Blue? I had a cat that looked like Prince who was a Russian Blue. Kathy, if you like, in our Shop we have a book/journal – “Griffin’s Heart” – written by a lovely gal who had a tough time working through her grief when her beloved cat, Griffin, passed. I think it may help you. https://www.faithfulfriends.com/shop/griffins-heart-pet-loss-book/
It’s good that you know we are here for you to talk with, to share your pain, and I hope your smiles come before tears soon. Please keep us posted on how you are doing, and feel welcome to share more photos with us. Sending you {HUGS}. Toni -
Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 5 years ago
Dianne, how are things going for you all? I didn’t know you had Princess and Oscar, too. It’s nice to see all three of their pictures. Thank you for sharing those with us. -
Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 5 years ago
No one will question your decisions, Dianne. We all make what we hope are the best choices. I wonder if you could give her to a rescue or shelter where they may be able to get her in shape, and adopted? Was Waggle.org able to help you? They may be able to pay the vet for her. https://www.waggle.org/ -
Toni Noel posted an update 5 years ago
I’m doing everything I can for my girl, with medicines and foods and treatments, but nothing is going to stop time – for any of us – and that’s a harsh reality. We have to love and linger in the times we have together. I, we here in our community, share the sadness and pain of the parting process, and I am so grateful for everyone who shares their stories and understanding with us. And….I am so grateful she is still with me, and seems to be doing okay for now :-)… Please, let us know how you and yours are doing. We are here for you.
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Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 5 years ago
How nice of you to take Skippy in to your home and heart, Nancy. It’s “good/bad” to have been together do long – we share so much over the years, and saying goodbye is bitter-sweet when they are at an advanced age. We know in our heads that we shared a wonderful long life of love and it was good for them, but we miss their presence, company and love so much. If you would like to share more about your lives together, and some pictures, we would really love to share those with you. By the way, were Skippy and your cat close friends? How is your cat doing? -
Dianne Kurtz posted an update 5 years ago
****sigh****
I just do not know what to do for my mama cat.She is so thin,that I honestly hope people don\’t think I am not feeding her,because she does eat twice a day.Her previous vet said she has IBS.Her stools are becoming formed but she isn\’t gaining weight.I now give her yogurt because it has probiotics in it.See the photos? My Chihuahua Princess is 11.The tuxedo cat on the right is 19 year old Oscar.And the bottom is mama.She is 14.The three eat twice daily.I live on a monthly fixed income and do not drive.I do not have anyone who can financially help pay for a vet visit,plus and lab work.
I too have IBS,so I know what mama cat is going through.I eat like she does,but then I have a sudden IBS flare up like she\’s had.I went from 124.6 pounds,down to117 pounds.
My heart is breaking because I know what I have to do…
Please don\’t judge me.-
No one will question your decisions, Dianne. We all make what we hope are the best choices. I wonder if you could give her to a rescue or shelter where they may be able to get her in shape, and adopted? Was Waggle.org able to help you? They may be able to pay the vet for her. https://www.waggle.org/
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Dianne, how are things going for you all? I didn’t know you had Princess and Oscar, too. It’s nice to see all three of their pictures. Thank you for sharing those with us.
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Toni Noel posted an update 5 years ago
@locutus9 Deb, hello and welcome to our caring community of pet lovers. Will you tell us about yours? How are you doing?
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Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 5 years ago
Oh Nancy, I am sorry to hear about your Skippy. When did you meet him? Were you together for all those years? What kind of pet was Skippy? May we see some pictures?-
Skippy was not quite a year old when I got him. He was a stray and such a cute little guy. We were best friends slept with me and my Bengal cat for all those years. He was a Jack Russell.
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How nice of you to take Skippy in to your home and heart, Nancy. It’s “good/bad” to have been together do long – we share so much over the years, and saying goodbye is bitter-sweet when they are at an advanced age. We know in our heads that we shared a wonderful long life of love and it was good for them, but we miss their presence, company and love so much. If you would like to share more about your lives together, and some pictures, we would really love to share those with you. By the way, were Skippy and your cat close friends? How is your cat doing?
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Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 5 years ago
Hooray! Poor little thing, and poor YOU for the terrible worry. Hopefully she learned a lesson and won’t do that again 🙂 -
Dianne Kurtz posted a new activity comment 5 years ago
She is back home,and very soaked from the heavy downpour of rain last night.I towel dried her and hair dried her on low temperature.-
Hooray! Poor little thing, and poor YOU for the terrible worry. Hopefully she learned a lesson and won’t do that again 🙂
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Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 5 years ago
Dianne, can you call your animal control people (our phone umber is 311 – I don’t know if you have the same system) and ask them to patrol your area? She may be under a porch, or maybe someone let her in their house. A cat of mine once got stuck in the roof eave across from me. It was terrible because I could hear her crying but didn’t know where she was. They get into the darndest places. Let us know what’s going on.-
She is back home,and very soaked from the heavy downpour of rain last night.I towel dried her and hair dried her on low temperature.
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Hooray! Poor little thing, and poor YOU for the terrible worry. Hopefully she learned a lesson and won’t do that again 🙂
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