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Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 4 years, 9 months ago
Of course, Dianne. I think you are right. She seemed ready. We never are. {HUGS} -
Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 4 years, 9 months ago
Oh Dianne. She seemed to want to go outside lately, didn’t she? I wonder if she was so unwell, she wanted “out” literally. Yes, you feel guilty but I truly think that’s not true. I’ll share my story to tell you why I think you didn’t have a choice about it for her: My kitten Nicki never wanted to go outside. I had to pick her up and take her. One night my cat Chivo came in the sliding doors and Nicki jumped over her to get out – it was very strange for her to do. After awhile, when Nicki didn’t come in, I sent Chivo to look for her and Chivo came back and I knew, just knew, that Nicki had been hit and killed by a car. Guilt is a huge part of what we feel, but I really think Nicki was somehow compelled to go out. That may sound odd, but she NEVER went out on her own, and to jump over Chivo (who was her adopted mother) was way out of character. So, I’m not sure we have the control over their actions as much as we would like. Of course I am, and we all are, just devastated for you, and her. I know how you have worried each moment about her health challenges. I am so sad and sorry, and I hope you will allow yourself to grieve with kindness for yourself, and that soon you will find happiness with the memories you made together. Toni-
Toni,Mama George has never wanted outside.Until the last week.She got out once.Then we were all sitting in the house and nobody noticed she got out.But I think she knew she was ready to go “home”.My heart is broken.-
Of course, Dianne. I think you are right. She seemed ready. We never are. {HUGS}
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Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 4 years, 9 months ago
Susan, not only is the sentiment true, the puppy in the picture is too adorable. I will suggest that people who have any furry, finned, feathered or scaled friend awaiting is a lucky human 🙂 Don’t you think? My cat always runs to greet me – I think she really wants a tummy rub and back scratch, but like to think she’s happy to see me……… -
Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 4 years, 9 months ago
Tabetha, anniversaries and holidays, especially the first year, can be brutal with the memories they stir. I hope you will allow yourself to acknowledge and express your grief at this time more than ever. I am sure even little things trigger big emotions and there’s nothing for it but to feel it. I suspect Ladybug would, and does, send you her gratitude for a life of love you shared, and wants you to have smiles before tears when you think of her, and the 18 wheeling fun….We’re here for you not only at this time, but always, and I hope you will touch base often, even if, maybe especially if, you are hurting. I’ll be thinking of you, and hope this {HUG} helps you a little bit. Toni -
Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 4 years, 9 months ago
You have every reason to be angry and still in tremendous pain, Cathy. I can’t speak to what happened at the vet, but the shock and loss would bring any of us to our knees. Would you like to speak with a trained, professional grief counselor? Glenn Swain (Rev. but non-denominational) has made his services available to our community at a discount. You can click here to schedule with him if you like: https://www.faithfulfriends.com/grief-counseling/
It seems to me you are dealing with two distinct, powerful challenges: Sadness and despair at Sheba’s passing and all the strong emotions any death of a beloved pet carries; and flat out anger at the result of the barium. Perhaps you could discuss the procedure she had with some other veterinarians – they may be able to explain how and why that happened. Please, let us know what you do, and what you find out, and how you are moving through this. I am so very sorry. Toni -
Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 4 years, 9 months ago
Oh Kathy, I am so sorry and understand. It really isn’t that long since July, and I think holidays bring up memories and strong emotions. It sounds as if you took wonderful care of, and showered lots of love on Prince. He looks so happy in the photo. Do you know if he was a Russian Blue? I had a cat that looked like Prince who was a Russian Blue. Kathy, if you like, in our Shop we have a book/journal – “Griffin’s Heart” – written by a lovely gal who had a tough time working through her grief when her beloved cat, Griffin, passed. I think it may help you. https://www.faithfulfriends.com/shop/griffins-heart-pet-loss-book/
It’s good that you know we are here for you to talk with, to share your pain, and I hope your smiles come before tears soon. Please keep us posted on how you are doing, and feel welcome to share more photos with us. Sending you {HUGS}. Toni -
Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 4 years, 9 months ago
Dianne, how are things going for you all? I didn’t know you had Princess and Oscar, too. It’s nice to see all three of their pictures. Thank you for sharing those with us. -
Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 4 years, 9 months ago
No one will question your decisions, Dianne. We all make what we hope are the best choices. I wonder if you could give her to a rescue or shelter where they may be able to get her in shape, and adopted? Was Waggle.org able to help you? They may be able to pay the vet for her. https://www.waggle.org/ -
Toni Noel posted an update 4 years, 9 months ago
I’m doing everything I can for my girl, with medicines and foods and treatments, but nothing is going to stop time – for any of us – and that’s a harsh reality. We have to love and linger in the times we have together. I, we here in our community, share the sadness and pain of the parting process, and I am so grateful for everyone who shares their stories and understanding with us. And….I am so grateful she is still with me, and seems to be doing okay for now :-)… Please, let us know how you and yours are doing. We are here for you.
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Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 4 years, 9 months ago
How nice of you to take Skippy in to your home and heart, Nancy. It’s “good/bad” to have been together do long – we share so much over the years, and saying goodbye is bitter-sweet when they are at an advanced age. We know in our heads that we shared a wonderful long life of love and it was good for them, but we miss their presence, company and love so much. If you would like to share more about your lives together, and some pictures, we would really love to share those with you. By the way, were Skippy and your cat close friends? How is your cat doing? -
Toni Noel posted an update 4 years, 9 months ago
@locutus9 Deb, hello and welcome to our caring community of pet lovers. Will you tell us about yours? How are you doing?
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Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 4 years, 9 months ago
Oh Nancy, I am sorry to hear about your Skippy. When did you meet him? Were you together for all those years? What kind of pet was Skippy? May we see some pictures?-
Skippy was not quite a year old when I got him. He was a stray and such a cute little guy. We were best friends slept with me and my Bengal cat for all those years. He was a Jack Russell.
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How nice of you to take Skippy in to your home and heart, Nancy. It’s “good/bad” to have been together do long – we share so much over the years, and saying goodbye is bitter-sweet when they are at an advanced age. We know in our heads that we shared a wonderful long life of love and it was good for them, but we miss their presence, company and love so much. If you would like to share more about your lives together, and some pictures, we would really love to share those with you. By the way, were Skippy and your cat close friends? How is your cat doing?
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Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 4 years, 9 months ago
Hooray! Poor little thing, and poor YOU for the terrible worry. Hopefully she learned a lesson and won’t do that again 🙂 -
Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 4 years, 9 months ago
Dianne, can you call your animal control people (our phone umber is 311 – I don’t know if you have the same system) and ask them to patrol your area? She may be under a porch, or maybe someone let her in their house. A cat of mine once got stuck in the roof eave across from me. It was terrible because I could hear her crying but didn’t know where she was. They get into the darndest places. Let us know what’s going on.-
She is back home,and very soaked from the heavy downpour of rain last night.I towel dried her and hair dried her on low temperature.
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Hooray! Poor little thing, and poor YOU for the terrible worry. Hopefully she learned a lesson and won’t do that again 🙂
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Toni Noel posted an update 4 years, 10 months ago
@tiff1230 Hello and welcome to our caring community, Tiffany. I am very sorry for your loss of Josephine. How are you doing – okay I hope? Please tell us about Josephine and share some photos if you like.
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Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 4 years, 10 months ago
Dave, how are you two coming along? I’m sure you are still in pain, but hope each day brings more smiles than tears. We’re thinking of you. -
Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 4 years, 10 months ago
Dianne, I am so happy to hear your update. I think of you and George every day, and think it’s because my old girl has similar problems. She had blood in her stool again a few weeks ago and there were no parasites, so we’ve added another dose of antibiotic. She has so many health challenges….But! It sounds as if George has a single issue that may be controllable once you identify what’s going on. Just curious – have you contacted Waggle.org and have they helped you? Thank you Dianne, for letting us know, and please let us know what you find out. Toni -
Toni Noel posted an update 4 years, 10 months ago
@rrneal67 Hello Rick, and welcome to our caring community of pet and animal lovers. I am so sorry for your loss of Oliver (love that name) and I wonder how you are doing – okay, I hope? Will you tell us about Oliver, and your lives together? How you met, what kind of pet was he, anything you would like to share. If you have photos, we love to see those. Please let us know how you are doing, Rick.
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Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 4 years, 10 months ago
Oh my Dawg, Susan …. you are barking up my tree with this one :-)…In our November newsletter (which you should have received), I mention the “early morning rousings”…how cool of you to share this with us. Your comments are always so charming and meaningful – Thank You for sharing with us, Susan. Keep ’em coming – we love them, and you 🙂 -
Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 4 years, 10 months ago
OH! Carla, may we see a picture, or pictures of Miracle? - Load More
