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Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 10 months ago
Bernadette, I have been thinking about your sentiment and am so very sorry for the passing of your dear sister💔I have a sister and can’t imagine the pain of losing her. It is understandable that losing one of her beloved babies brings forward such deep pain. Can you think of the comfort you gave her pets and the love you carried from her, through you, to them, and feel that you did exactly what your sister entrusted you to do – to care for and about them? Too many people don’t plan for their pet’s care and you and your sister are clearly loving to plan ahead. I hope you can find peace knowing that you fulfilled your sister’s wishes by caring the way you have, and do. That’s a lot and I am sorry for your pain. And I am happy that your sister knew to share her love of her pets with you. Please Bernadette, let us know how you are doing, and come to our online group meeting November 20th to share with other kind, caring people. I am sending you {{BIG HUGS}}. Toni -
Cody posted a new activity comment 10 months ago
I’m sorry, Bernadette <3 -
Bernadette posted an update 10 months ago
My heart is broke.
Losing Dima has got me feeling so depressed.
She was my baby sis’s dad g – who passed away from ovarian cancer & I promised her I’d take care of her dog & cat. I feel like I buried my baby sis all over again.
Just having a hard time keeping my head up.-
I’m sorry, Bernadette <3
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Bernadette, I have been thinking about your sentiment and am so very sorry for the passing of your dear sister💔I have a sister and can’t imagine the pain of losing her. It is understandable that losing one of her beloved babies brings forward such deep pain. Can you think of the comfort you gave her pets and the love you carried from her, through you, to them, and feel that you did exactly what your sister entrusted you to do – to care for and about them? Too many people don’t plan for their pet’s care and you and your sister are clearly loving to plan ahead. I hope you can find peace knowing that you fulfilled your sister’s wishes by caring the way you have, and do. That’s a lot and I am sorry for your pain. And I am happy that your sister knew to share her love of her pets with you. Please Bernadette, let us know how you are doing, and come to our online group meeting November 20th to share with other kind, caring people. I am sending you {{BIG HUGS}}. Toni
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Bernadette, I’m sorry to hear of the loss of your sister and your pets. My name is Bernadette too. My older sister and I moved to Florida after she retired in 2005 and we came here with our six cats and several birds. Over the years I lost my pets one by one. 2 1/2 years ago, my sister passed away. she was the last of my family, and at that time I only had the last of my original kitties, Minnie, still with me. 10 months later, she passed away and I was completely alone and in tears pretty much every day. After four months of not knowing what to do with myself I adopted a senior kitty who pretty much saved me. I didn’t want a young cat because at 68 years old. I was terrified of having to leave any pets behind if something happened to me. And then this past Labor Day, the universe dropped a four month old kitten on my driveway, and what could I do? I spend a good chunk of each day thinking about what I can do to find someone to care for my babies if something were to happen to me. Your sister knew she had someone she could count on in you to take care of her little ones and that’s really a gift. I don’t think it ever gets easier, and for me I don’t know if I’ll ever be whole again, but I take one day at a time. If you can, you should try and join in on the Faithful Friends zoom meeting on the third Thursday of each month. I found Toni when I was in a dark place and it helps to have people to talk and cry with. I will tell you things will get better because I know better than that but just take small steps, one day at a time. Hope to see you at the meeting.
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*won’t tell you…Sorry, autocorrect.
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I am so sorry for your loss 💔
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Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 10 months, 1 week ago
It is so good that you are there for, and with your mom, and understand her pain (and yours) is real. It takes time and love to heal, and be able to find joy in your memories of the time you were lucky to share with darling Lucy. Please keep us posted about how you are both doing. {{BIG HUGS}} Toni -
Shawn posted an update 10 months, 1 week ago
My mom had to put her fur baby to sleep today. She was old with an enlarged heart. And her organs started dieing today. She was like 10yrs old. Mom is really upset. I am also. Her name was Lucy and now shes running free happy and pain free over the rainbow bridge. 🌈-
It is so good that you are there for, and with your mom, and understand her pain (and yours) is real. It takes time and love to heal, and be able to find joy in your memories of the time you were lucky to share with darling Lucy. Please keep us posted about how you are both doing. {{BIG HUGS}} Toni
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I’m so sorry for your loss Lucy 💔
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Shawn posted a new activity comment 10 months, 1 week ago
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Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 10 months, 1 week ago
Oh Linda, what a sweet face little Roxy had. I am so very sorry you had to say gooodbye💔If you are able, and ready, will you tell us more about Roxy, and what happened? How did you meet? How long were you together? What did you enjoy doing? May we see more pictures, please? We are here for you, Linda. -
Maureen posted a new activity comment 10 months, 2 weeks ago
Zoey, I’m so sorry for your loss of Dobie 💔 -
Maureen posted a new activity comment 10 months, 2 weeks ago
Shawn, I am so sorry for your loss of Fluffy 💔 Sending comforting hugs to you 💔 -
Linda H posted an update 10 months, 2 weeks ago
I lost my sweet Roxy on Oct 14th, 2025. My heart is broken.-
Oh Linda, what a sweet face little Roxy had. I am so very sorry you had to say gooodbye💔If you are able, and ready, will you tell us more about Roxy, and what happened? How did you meet? How long were you together? What did you enjoy doing? May we see more pictures, please? We are here for you, Linda.
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Shawn posted a new activity comment 10 months, 2 weeks ago
Thank u so much. Yeah she was a sweet and loving girl. Had her since the day she was born. -
Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 10 months, 2 weeks ago
Shawn, I am sorry you had to say goodbye to Fluffy. Losing them is the downside of loving them. Unfortunately, our beloved babies are only on loan to us. I hope you can find smiles in your memories of the time you and Fluffy were lucky to share. Toni -
Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 10 months, 2 weeks ago
Oh, that is so hard, Shawn – not knowing what happened. He’s so handsome, maybe someone took him in. Years ago one of my cats went out and never came back. To this day I prefer to think she was adopted. I am so sorry for your worry and pain. Please let us know how you are doing. Toni -
Shawn posted an update 10 months, 2 weeks ago
Fluffy passed away July 29, 2025. She was 12yrs old.-
Shawn, I am sorry you had to say goodbye to Fluffy. Losing them is the downside of loving them. Unfortunately, our beloved babies are only on loan to us. I hope you can find smiles in your memories of the time you and Fluffy were lucky to share. Toni
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Thank u so much. Yeah she was a sweet and loving girl. Had her since the day she was born.
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Shawn, I am so sorry for your loss of Fluffy 💔 Sending comforting hugs to you 💔
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Thank u so much.
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Shawn posted a new activity comment 10 months, 2 weeks ago
Thank you. Goofy disappeared back in July of 2022. -
Shawn posted an update 10 months, 2 weeks ago
My dog Goofy got loose awhile back. And nobody has seen him. Im thinking he passed away.-
Oh, that is so hard, Shawn – not knowing what happened. He’s so handsome, maybe someone took him in. Years ago one of my cats went out and never came back. To this day I prefer to think she was adopted. I am so sorry for your worry and pain. Please let us know how you are doing. Toni
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Toni Noel posted an update 10 months, 3 weeks ago
GROUP MEETING this Thursday October 16 at 7PM Eastern. The link to join is under the Events tab. Toni
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Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 10 months, 3 weeks ago
How are you doing now, Zoey? I hope you will join our online group meeting this coming Thursday to talk about Dobie and your life together. It can help a lot to share with kind people who understand and support you. It’s free and easy to join on Zoom – the link is under “Events” on the right side of our Community page. Please feel welcome to continue to post here, too. We are here for you. Toni -
Zoey posted an update 10 months, 3 weeks ago
I\’m just wishing Dobie hears me. I miss him so much. He passed in my arms on the way to the er vet. They said it was a blood clot and he went fast. My heart hurts so bad. 😭😭💔💔💔🌈-
How are you doing now, Zoey? I hope you will join our online group meeting this coming Thursday to talk about Dobie and your life together. It can help a lot to share with kind people who understand and support you. It’s free and easy to join on Zoom – the link is under “Events” on the right side of our Community page. Please feel welcome to continue to post here, too. We are here for you. Toni
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Zoey, I’m so sorry for your loss of Dobie 💔
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Maureen posted a new activity comment 10 months, 3 weeks ago
Dianne, I am so very sorry for your loss of Molly 💔 - Load More
