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Maureen posted a new activity comment 9 months, 1 week ago
I’m so sorry for your loss Lucy 💔 -
Maureen posted a new activity comment 9 months, 1 week ago
Cori, I am so sorry for your loss 💔 -
Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 9 months, 1 week ago
Oh my goodness, Cathy. That is so hard – saying goodbye to a love that has been a huge part of your life for so many years, through so many events and ups and downs. I am so very sorry for your parting💔I am also happy you and Bug were lucky to share twenty loving years together! In our heads we know that 20 years is a wonderful lifetime, but our hearts are never ready to let go. Cathy, I hope you will join us for a kind, caring group meeting Novemebr 20th. It’s usually a small group and you can sry, laugh and curse with us – we understand. Please keep sharing with us here and know we are here for you. Toni
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Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 9 months, 1 week ago
Ingeborg, I am so sorry💔When I lost my Beauty Girl I struggled with the question “How am I going to endure this”? And you know what, I slept with a stuffed toy and made myself think of the many times of joy and love we were lucky to share – that really helped me get through. Your sweet boy had a loving life wth you. The brutal part of loving so much is saying goodbye. Ingeborg, PLEASE join our kind group meeting Thursday Novemebr 20th. I think it helps a lot to talk, and cry, with us – we understand and care. In the mean time, keep sharing here with us so we can know how and what you are doing. With my sincere sympathy, Toni
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Cathy posted an update 9 months, 1 week ago
Miss my sweet girl, Bug. She passed on 10/29/25. 20 years old and she’s has been with me since she was an 8 week old kitten. It’s so hard without her.
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Cody posted a new activity comment 9 months, 1 week ago
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Ingeborg posted an update 9 months, 1 week ago
My sweet boy. He left 14 Oct 25. Far too early. I miss my little dude so much it\’s unbearable.-
Thinking about you <3
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Ingeborg, I am so sorry💔When I lost my Beauty Girl I struggled with the question “How am I going to endure this”? And you know what, I slept with a stuffed toy and made myself think of the many times of joy and love we were lucky to share – that really helped me get through. Your sweet boy had a loving life wth you. The brutal part of loving so much is saying goodbye. Ingeborg, PLEASE join our kind group meeting Thursday Novemebr 20th. I think it helps a lot to talk, and cry, with us – we understand and care. In the mean time, keep sharing here with us so we can know how and what you are doing. With my sincere sympathy, Toni
(Link to the meeting is under the “Events” tab on the right side of this page. We start at 7PM EST and you can stay as long or little as you like) -
I am so sorry for your loss 💔
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Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 9 months, 1 week ago
Oh Cori, I am so sorry💔Even though we know our babies are only on loan to us, it hurts like nothing else can to say goodbye. November 20th we will have our monthly group meeting and I hope that you will join us to talk about all of your babies. Until then, you are welcome to share photos and stories with us here. And please, light candles for Aunt Patty and Ajiah. We’re here for you Cori. I am sending you {{BIG HUGS}} Toni
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CoriS posted an update 9 months, 2 weeks ago
I just put my 14.5 year old Black Lab down on Friday. He was my shadow, My Footwarmer. I miss my buddy. But I know he is with Aunt Patty and His Littermate Ajiah.
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Oh Cori, I am so sorry💔Even though we know our babies are only on loan to us, it hurts like nothing else can to say goodbye. November 20th we will have our monthly group meeting and I hope that you will join us to talk about all of your babies. Until then, you are welcome to share photos and stories with us here. And please, light candles for Aunt Patty and Ajiah. We’re here for you Cori. I am sending you {{BIG HUGS}} Toni
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Cori, I am so sorry for your loss 💔
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Berni posted a new activity comment 9 months, 2 weeks ago
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Berni posted a new activity comment 9 months, 2 weeks ago
Bernadette, I’m sorry to hear of the loss of your sister and your pets. My name is Bernadette too. My older sister and I moved to Florida after she retired in 2005 and we came here with our six cats and several birds. Over the years I lost my pets one by one. 2 1/2 years ago, my sister passed away. she was the last of my family, and at that time I only had the last of my original kitties, Minnie, still with me. 10 months later, she passed away and I was completely alone and in tears pretty much every day. After four months of not knowing what to do with myself I adopted a senior kitty who pretty much saved me. I didn’t want a young cat because at 68 years old. I was terrified of having to leave any pets behind if something happened to me. And then this past Labor Day, the universe dropped a four month old kitten on my driveway, and what could I do? I spend a good chunk of each day thinking about what I can do to find someone to care for my babies if something were to happen to me. Your sister knew she had someone she could count on in you to take care of her little ones and that’s really a gift. I don’t think it ever gets easier, and for me I don’t know if I’ll ever be whole again, but I take one day at a time. If you can, you should try and join in on the Faithful Friends zoom meeting on the third Thursday of each month. I found Toni when I was in a dark place and it helps to have people to talk and cry with. I will tell you things will get better because I know better than that but just take small steps, one day at a time. Hope to see you at the meeting. -
Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 9 months, 2 weeks ago
Bernadette, I have been thinking about your sentiment and am so very sorry for the passing of your dear sister💔I have a sister and can’t imagine the pain of losing her. It is understandable that losing one of her beloved babies brings forward such deep pain. Can you think of the comfort you gave her pets and the love you carried from her, through you, to them, and feel that you did exactly what your sister entrusted you to do – to care for and about them? Too many people don’t plan for their pet’s care and you and your sister are clearly loving to plan ahead. I hope you can find peace knowing that you fulfilled your sister’s wishes by caring the way you have, and do. That’s a lot and I am sorry for your pain. And I am happy that your sister knew to share her love of her pets with you. Please Bernadette, let us know how you are doing, and come to our online group meeting November 20th to share with other kind, caring people. I am sending you {{BIG HUGS}}. Toni -
Cody posted a new activity comment 9 months, 2 weeks ago
I’m sorry, Bernadette <3 -
Bernadette posted an update 9 months, 2 weeks ago
My heart is broke.
Losing Dima has got me feeling so depressed.
She was my baby sis’s dad g – who passed away from ovarian cancer & I promised her I’d take care of her dog & cat. I feel like I buried my baby sis all over again.
Just having a hard time keeping my head up.-
I’m sorry, Bernadette <3
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Bernadette, I have been thinking about your sentiment and am so very sorry for the passing of your dear sister💔I have a sister and can’t imagine the pain of losing her. It is understandable that losing one of her beloved babies brings forward such deep pain. Can you think of the comfort you gave her pets and the love you carried from her, through you, to them, and feel that you did exactly what your sister entrusted you to do – to care for and about them? Too many people don’t plan for their pet’s care and you and your sister are clearly loving to plan ahead. I hope you can find peace knowing that you fulfilled your sister’s wishes by caring the way you have, and do. That’s a lot and I am sorry for your pain. And I am happy that your sister knew to share her love of her pets with you. Please Bernadette, let us know how you are doing, and come to our online group meeting November 20th to share with other kind, caring people. I am sending you {{BIG HUGS}}. Toni
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Bernadette, I’m sorry to hear of the loss of your sister and your pets. My name is Bernadette too. My older sister and I moved to Florida after she retired in 2005 and we came here with our six cats and several birds. Over the years I lost my pets one by one. 2 1/2 years ago, my sister passed away. she was the last of my family, and at that time I only had the last of my original kitties, Minnie, still with me. 10 months later, she passed away and I was completely alone and in tears pretty much every day. After four months of not knowing what to do with myself I adopted a senior kitty who pretty much saved me. I didn’t want a young cat because at 68 years old. I was terrified of having to leave any pets behind if something happened to me. And then this past Labor Day, the universe dropped a four month old kitten on my driveway, and what could I do? I spend a good chunk of each day thinking about what I can do to find someone to care for my babies if something were to happen to me. Your sister knew she had someone she could count on in you to take care of her little ones and that’s really a gift. I don’t think it ever gets easier, and for me I don’t know if I’ll ever be whole again, but I take one day at a time. If you can, you should try and join in on the Faithful Friends zoom meeting on the third Thursday of each month. I found Toni when I was in a dark place and it helps to have people to talk and cry with. I will tell you things will get better because I know better than that but just take small steps, one day at a time. Hope to see you at the meeting.
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*won’t tell you…Sorry, autocorrect.
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I am so sorry for your loss 💔
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Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 9 months, 3 weeks ago
It is so good that you are there for, and with your mom, and understand her pain (and yours) is real. It takes time and love to heal, and be able to find joy in your memories of the time you were lucky to share with darling Lucy. Please keep us posted about how you are both doing. {{BIG HUGS}} Toni -
Shawn posted an update 9 months, 3 weeks ago
My mom had to put her fur baby to sleep today. She was old with an enlarged heart. And her organs started dieing today. She was like 10yrs old. Mom is really upset. I am also. Her name was Lucy and now shes running free happy and pain free over the rainbow bridge. 🌈-
It is so good that you are there for, and with your mom, and understand her pain (and yours) is real. It takes time and love to heal, and be able to find joy in your memories of the time you were lucky to share with darling Lucy. Please keep us posted about how you are both doing. {{BIG HUGS}} Toni
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I’m so sorry for your loss Lucy 💔
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Shawn posted a new activity comment 9 months, 3 weeks ago
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Toni Noel posted a new activity comment 9 months, 3 weeks ago
Oh Linda, what a sweet face little Roxy had. I am so very sorry you had to say gooodbye💔If you are able, and ready, will you tell us more about Roxy, and what happened? How did you meet? How long were you together? What did you enjoy doing? May we see more pictures, please? We are here for you, Linda. -
Maureen posted a new activity comment 9 months, 3 weeks ago
Zoey, I’m so sorry for your loss of Dobie 💔 -
Maureen posted a new activity comment 9 months, 3 weeks ago
Shawn, I am so sorry for your loss of Fluffy 💔 Sending comforting hugs to you 💔 - Load More
(The link to the meeting is under the “Events” tab on the right side of this page. 7PM EST, 4 Pacific)