Faithful Friends | Diana | Activity https://www.faithfulfriends.com/social/members/nicholasmom/activity/ Activity feed for Diana. Fri, 07 Aug 2026 19:00:51 -0600 https://buddypress.org/?v= en-US 30 hourly 2 bd2cd029653a181263e2c55efe510e4f Diana posted a new activity comment https://www.faithfulfriends.com/social/activity/p/44058/#acomment-44072 Sat, 20 Aug 2022 00:38:36 -0600
Thank you, Toni for your compassionate response. I am so sorry that your lost your Beauty Girl. Black cats are the most special of kitties and their absence creates such a void. Nicholas was the sweetest, most loving boy. He loved everybody and everybody loved him.
    In reply to - Diana posted an update in the group Remember
    Today was National Black Cat Appreciation Day. Not one friend or family member remembered my Nicholas. I was on the phone for a hour with a friend who also has a black cat and all she talked about was the husband she is planning to divorce. When I got off the phone, I felt the deep sense of alienation again from everyone I have feeling since Nicholas died suddenly before Christmas on 12/12/21. There was a lot of trauma surrounding his death because of the way Nicholas and I was treated by the last ER vet who saw him. Nicholas did not receive the appropriate medical care. I also recently found that that he had been misdiagnosed which has only compounded my grief, as I struggled to get him the right medical help during the pandemic. I lost my best friend and soul kitty.Not one friend or family member remembered my Nicholas. I was on the phone for a hour with a friend who also has a black cat and all she talked about was the husband she is planning to divorce. When I got off the phone, I I feel no one understands nor do they care how significant of a loss this is me. I just wanted to share my boy with people who love and miss their pets because his life mattered. Thank you for listening.
    ]]>         9e02e643adc0a45d9948d2838cdc5841 Diana posted an update in the group Remember https://www.faithfulfriends.com/social/activity/p/44058/ Thu, 18 Aug 2022 01:19:02 -0600
    Today was National Black Cat Appreciation Day. Not one friend or family member remembered my Nicholas. I was on the phone for a hour with a friend who also has a black cat and all she talked about was the husband she is planning to divorce. When I got off the phone, I felt the deep sense of alienation again from everyone I have feeling since Nicholas died suddenly before Christmas on 12/12/21. There was a lot of trauma surrounding his death because of the way Nicholas and I was treated by the last ER vet who saw him. Nicholas did not receive the appropriate medical care. I also recently found that that he had been misdiagnosed which has only compounded my grief, as I struggled to get him the right medical help during the pandemic. I lost my best friend and soul kitty.Not one friend or family member remembered my Nicholas. I was on the phone for a hour with a friend who also has a black cat and all she talked about was the husband she is planning to divorce. When I got off the phone, I I feel no one understands nor do they care how significant of a loss this is me. I just wanted to share my boy with people who love and miss their pets because his life mattered. Thank you for listening.
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